The overwhelming injustice of John Crawford’s murder.
A moment of silence for all the female characters i didn’t get to appreciate in the past because of internalized misogyny.
Massages are my favorite. Sometimes just getting myself outside for a walk if I’m really busy can be an indulgence. I love taking naps. I love to stay up too late with close friends. I believe in everything in moderation. I take what I like and leave what I don’t.
#1 tactic emotional abusers will use to get you to comply to their wishes is threatening suicide or self harm, don’t fall for it
If you notice whenever you get real with a person who is treating you like shit, and they immediately shrivel up into this pathetic ball of self loathing so that somehow you’re the one comforting them, they are an emotional abuser.
don’t fall for it
really all you need to know about the american health care system is that there’s a popular tv series where a man turns to cooking industrial quantities of crystal meth in order to pay his hospital bills
The porn industry focuses on their bottom line because they know that they can take advantage of women like me. They know that there’s a high turnover rate, and that they’re breaking the law when they deny women like me the cheapest workplace barrier protection in existence—a condom.
They do all this because they don’t have to pay for the health care of people like me, which is half a million dollars of HIV medication alone over my lifetime. Instead, these health care costs end up getting paid for by taxpayers—while porn producers laugh their way to the bank."